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How Would You Treat a Friend? Part 1: Benefits of Mindful Self-Compassion Within a School Health Curriculum

Val Altieri Jr., Sierra Cordova, Robert Diehl, John McCarthy & Mariah Rooney

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Has someone ever “shown up” in a key moment for you when you were dealing with a difficult challenge? What difference did that person’s presence make for you? When a student, friend, or a loved one is going through difficulties, how do you show up for them? Do you always show up for yourself in the same way that you do for others? Sometimes the answer to that question is “No.” If we know how important it is to show up with a caring presence for others, then why is it that we are reluctant to show up with the same fierce caring for ourselves? How do you think your students would answer that same question?

Adolescents experience a period of rapid changes across biological, psychological, and cognitive domains of development during which they can become mercilessly hard on themselves, increasingly self-conscious about their peers’ opinions, and constantly comparative of themselves with others. Existing in such a state of excessive self-criticism and hyperawareness of judgment can lead to intense emotions, including shame, humiliation, and low self-esteem (Gilbert & Irons, 2009), which can be further intensified by the influences adolescents encounter on social media (Popat & Tarrant, 2023; Young et al., 2024). Given the array of social, emotional, and developmental challenges that impact adolescents’ self-concept, it is crucial that they have accessible and positive ways to cope with these challenges.

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